Sunday, August 21, 2005

Your own private space and time

Human live in a community, where everyone shares its space, is there such thing as own private space and time? Even if there is one it will not be permanent. As we sat in the toilet conducting our business, we have the whole four walls to ourselves. However once you flush, wipe your ass and walk out the door, you are back to the open space. Even at that most private moment you are actually using a space which is meant to be shared.

A small window of time whereby you are by yourself, deep in thoughts, thinking the next big plan or in solitude after a long day putting on a false face. It is just you and the by product from your body that is being pushed out. Some wish that time is a time where you could be left alone with your own thoughts. However most of us will ultimately think of the things that were happening or have happened outside the toilet door. As we are still human we care and shared our everyday lives.

The only way that you can really be alone is how you can really control the tiny little brain of yours. Once you mastered that you are your own master of your soul. You can be alone in whatever place imaginable. However some have overdone it until it has breached that level of “loss contact” with the outside world. We should have our own private space and time, however we are human we live in a community, we interact to stay “alive” although there are times we need that space and that time. When and what do you deem to be your own private space and time?

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

nice toilet ......... Hope to visit it someday .... Ha ha ha

PhotoCrazy said...

yeah, alot of thoughts if not doing any other things than just sitting down there. sometime the other world is so unreal.. hmm.. can be a hero or bad guy.. hehehe... or be with someone you very like to be with.. etc etc..

k.t.x said...

jus wipe ass and that's all??? eeeeeee. hee hee.

SooHK said...

Sis, go and renew your passport first... hahaha

Adiejin, hahaha...

Photocrazy, yeap sometimes the world is merely a stage...

Keatix, oh forgot I wash my hand after that... hahaha

MyOrangeSweater said...

Yeah lor, like Keatix said, better be "wipe your ass, WASH YOUR HANDS, and walk out the door ...".

You better not spend too much time on the throne in that nice toilet of yours, otherwise, you might have little visitors on your ass ...

Anonymous said...

sometimes, my bathroom becomes everyone's library.

Selba said...

Hahaha... what a witty thought "toilet as a private space & time", I prefer my bedroom as for my private space.

SooHK said...

lynne, Ummm I was told the same by my wife... he said Mr Piles will come visit

Chesca, huh!... wow.. you must have a huge collection there..

Selba, For married couples the bedroom is used for other things... hahaha

thepattycakes said...

I don't really have my own quiet time/space anymore. I'm always so boozed out with friends schwork internet and more fun out in the city.
Sighayee.
I rarely feel that I'm totally at ease anymore. And just yesterday I was trying to recall when was the last time I felt relaxed and totally happy. :)

Monica said...

I live alone, my whole place is MINE :)

i can leave the door open if I want to!!!

SooHK said...

Pat, umm you sounds like you are in 4 walls without a window. Got to learn to relax and enjoy a bit... hahaha I am still trying to do so myself...

Monica, lucky you.... I do once in a while have that opportunity and when that comes... I will be only in my birthday suit... hahaha

shiaulin said...

soo, i wash my butt too wor... don't u ???
:p

SooHK said...

Shiaulin, I do not wash my butt, I wipe it only... hahaha... washing butt? a lot of people wash?

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