Monday, June 20, 2005

Sleep or not to sleep

MJ was finally acquitted after many months. There are a lot of comments, guilty or not guilty? The law has decided that his is not guilty but I bet you it will be some time before the talk in the water cooler, tea tarik session, toilet stopped. What got him into trouble? Is it his habit of sleeping on the same bed with children or some might say due to his kindness or friendliness?

Do you find it “natural” to sleep together with someone beside your spouse? I slept once on the same bed with a male colleague during a trip to another colleague house in Hua Hin Thailand. I find it a bit odd, 2 males sleeping together. Luckily both of us loves female. Both of us have our face facing else where. I guess both of us have the same thought, which are we do not want our colleague to see us in one of those moments when our saliva was dripping from our mouth. Or we do not want to see each other having a hard on if we dreamt about some encounter with some beautiful girls, hahaha or worse still unknowingly or unwillingly “crossing swords”….

Oh, yeap, I remember I have even slept in the same room with 2 female colleagues in a trip to Genting. It was one of those trips that was organised with the sole purpose of getting to know each other. Actually I guess my colleague actually took pity in me. I and another colleague were forced to sleep outside in the living room as someone makes a blunder during booking. We booked an apartment. We were told that there are 3 rooms but actually one of the rooms is actually so small that it can fit only a bed. So the gentlemen in me offered to sleep in the living room.

I am not sure why but I guess they are kind to let me (not the other colleague) in to their room. I guess I look more like a little puppy thrown out into the winter night, shivering in the cold. One of the girls came out after midnight and asks me to sleep in their room, not in the same bed (I wished) but on the floor. Actually they did offer to share the same bed but hahaha I mind as I afraid the plug will accidentally get plugged. After that night I was sick for a week. I was around 23 years old then.

Is it alright for us to sleep with another person beside our spouse? Sleep or not to sleep?

12 comments:

Lynne said...

Haha, I "sleep" with different guys all the times - Basketball camp, slept in the same room with at least 5 to 6 guys + 5 to 6 gals. After 1 whole day of training, nobody had the "mood" for anything else but sleep (on their own). NUS, 4, 5 of us (guys and gals) all slept in the same room, after working on project all night long, again, all brain-fried and no "mood" to think of other things. Sometimes after clubbing, fell asleep on male colleague's shoulder on the ride back home. Many many times, "slept" with different men ...

I have not checked my personal email yet (no access here at work), but thanks for the info, I owe you one! :)

|dAia| said...

i guess sleeping as in really sleeping..would be okay..but if it was the othr one..sure get into loads of trouble..i mean...just see the movies n series thier showing n how sleeping with other people affect our relationship....=P

5xmom ~chanlilian.net~ said...

Hell, no of course! I would cut off that little birdie should I catch my spouse sleep with any other females. Hahahaha. Couldn't resist posting a comment to this very funny question. First time here.

AdieJin said...

Errr..would not want to answer but then what the heck..I ain't got any problem sleeping with someone else be it female or male..as long as nobody puts anything in anybody's anything....hehehehe...but will consider putting things in a female though..OUCH!!! hey, no pinching...should have not answered this question..OUCHHH!!!!stop it will ya hon....

Pseudo-intellectual lunatic said...

nice blog
do u like selena

Pseudo-intellectual lunatic said...

nice blog
do u like selena

Pseudo-intellectual lunatic said...

nice blog
do u like selena

Pseudo-intellectual lunatic said...

nice blog
do u like selena

leecs said...

eeeee many years travelling around, share with lots of female colleagues on the same bed before, john (my 1st hahaha) panghl? the rest i think in the same room but not on the same bed, like andy, vincent, keny,.... me very 'chap' one....
female??? eeeeeee :p

De Book Worm said...

The only other guy I have shared a bed with is openly gay so I think that doesn't count. As for my loh-koong sharing a bed with another female....he'd better not even entertain the idea! Ha! Ha!

Sherry said...

All that matters is that it's over. Yay!

SooHK said...

Lynne, you sure have a lot of sleeping activites... hahaha.

Nurul, yeap I agree woth you totally...

5xmom, hahaha oh my god the birdie... flew away..

Adiejin, luckily its not the birdie...that got the pinching..

Pseudo-intellectual lunatic, thanks and who is selena...?

LeeCS, if they are female, I am female also...

De Book worm, just sleep and doing nothing also cannot?....

Sherry, yeap its over...

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